When should a bachelorette party be held?
A bachelorette party usually takes place around two months before the wedding, but can be thrown within weeks of the main event, too. We suggest planning this celebration a few months ahead of the big day so the bride doesn’t feel overbooked with pre-wedding commitments so close to the date.
Is a bachelorette party and bridal shower the same thing?
A wedding shower is a party given for a bride, with the intention of showering the bride with gifts she will need to start up a new household. A bachelorette party is the female equivalent of a bachelor party, supposedly the last time out drinking and partying with “the girls,” as single women.
Who throws the bridal shower and bachelorette party?
Who Throws a Bridal Shower? The bridal shower is usually hosted by the maid of honor, close friends, bridal attendants, or bridesmaids. No matter who is hosting, be sure to communicate clearly to make sure you aren’t planning two separate showers.
Who pays for the bridal shower and bachelorette party?
Whoever is hosting the bridal shower should pay for the expenses: food, decorations, games, entertainment, etc. It is not proper etiquette for the host to ask for contributions. If it’s a bid too much for one person to cover, you might consider having a group of people host it together. Then they can share the costs.
Should the bridal shower be before the bachelorette party?
Timing depends on logistics, but generally a bridal shower is held anywhere from two weeks to two months before the wedding. Corralling a bridal party isn’t always an easy task, so send invitations six to eight weeks prior to the event to give everyone time to sort out any travel details.
Does the maid of honor plan the bachelorette party?
A maid of honor is responsible for being the head of the bridesmaids, keeping them organized. Typically, the maid of honor leads the bridesmaids in planning a bridal shower and often a bachelorette party. On the day of the wedding, a maid of honor helps the bride get dressed and stay calm.
Can you combine a bridal shower and bachelorette party?
If you’re trying to minimize travel and expenses for the entire bridal party, suggest combining the bridal shower and bachelorette party into one, fun-filled weekend somewhere special.
Do mothers go to bachelorette parties?
But should your mom (or future mother-in-law) be invited, too? By no means are you obligated to invite the moms to your bachelorette party, but if the event is going to be more of a relaxed affair, something your mom or future MIL might enjoy, then consider asking them along.
What is the etiquette for bridal shower gifts?
Keeping the 20-20-60 Rule in mind, a bridal shower gift should be about one-third the price of your wedding gift. However, what you spend comes down to your relationship with the bride or groom, and your budget. Typically, shower gifts should be between $25 to $75.
What does the mother of the bride do?
Act as a hostess at the wedding and reception, making sure guests are comfortable. This also includes standing in the receiving line, sitting at the parents’ table, and making sure the bride has greeted all her guests.
Who pays for rehearsal dinner?
Both the groom’s parents traditionally organize (and pay for) the rehearsal dinner. This can range in size from a small occasion for members of the wedding party only to a grand soiree (never to outdo the wedding, of course) that includes half or more of the wedding guests.
Can the mother of the bride host a bridal shower?
Anyone who’s close to the bride, including her mother or sisters, can host. It used to be that immediate family members were never named as official hosts. Since a shower is all about asking people to bring gifts, it was thought to be tacky if a bride’s family were essentially bidding for presents.
What does the maid of honor pay for?
Help plan and pay for the bridal shower and bachelorette party. The maid (or matron) of honor is in charge of the parties, but bridesmaids are expected to have ideas, give feedback, help decorate, chip in cash, and assist with the hostess duties. If you’re on a limited budget, be up front about it.
How far in advance do you send bridal shower invitations?
four to six weeks